In this episode, Christina has a conversation with Patrick Neve, author of the Amazon bestselling book, Save Your Parish. In his book, Patrick shares a practical blueprint for revitalizing parish life, empowering laypeople to be proactive agents of change without waiting for priestly permission. Throughout our conversation, we discuss how small, intentional steps can transform your church community and inspire hope in a declining church landscape.
Patrick’s book complements the work being done at The Catholic Leadership Puzzle, and which I shared about in my own book, Solving the Parish Puzzle in that both of our books act as calls to aspire to holiness through active parish engagement — and the reminder that even small acts of lay leadership can greatly impact our Church’s future.
Key Topics:
Patrick’s faith journey from childhood Catholic to active parish leader
The importance of understanding parish as a community of people, not just an institution
How parish mergers in Pittsburgh influenced Patrick’s view on community and survival
The concept behind the “Four Floors” framework for parish revitalization: meeting, growing, sharing, and evangelizing
Practical ways laypeople can initiate ministry projects without waiting for clergy approval
The role of diagnostics and discussions in identifying parish needs and mobilizing lay action
Personal anecdotes from Patrick’s experiences in comedy, youth ministry, and podcasting that prepared him for evangelization
The impact of the “Save Your Parish” book and success stories of parish transformation
Overcoming resistance and encouraging perseverance in parish renewal efforts
How to stay spiritually grounded and present amidst online evangelization and everyday life
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction & Patrick’s faith journey
02:15 - Parish as a community, not just an institution
05:54 - How parish mergers shape community understanding
12:14 - Genesis of the “Save Your Parish” vision
16:16 - The four floors framework explained
17:36 - Immediate steps for laypeople with great ideas
20:23 - Diagnostic tools for parish assessment
24:56 - Overcoming resistance and the hope for renewal
26:14 - Patrick’s hopes for the movement and future plans
28:13 - The most rewarding moments in parish transformation
31:24 - Personal growth and sainthood through service
33:10 - Practical habits for staying present and prayerful
35:21 - Final encouragement and how to connect with Patrick
Resources & Links:
Save Your Parish – Patrick’s website and book info
Ministry OS – Organize and build your parish ministry
Book on Amazon – “Save Your Parish” by Patrick Neve









