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Key Topics

• Richard McCorry’s faith journey and calling to promote hospitality

• The biblical and spiritual foundations of welcoming strangers

• Common misconceptions about hospitality in parishes

• The importance of culture change over quick programs

• A step-by-step process for creating a culture of welcome

• Leadership’s role in fostering hospitality

• Practical first steps for parishioners to encourage welcoming environments

• The significance of assessing parish reality from a stranger’s perspective

• How true hospitality supports evangelization and community growth

• Real-life examples of hospitable parishes and their impact

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction to Richard McCorry and the importance of hospitality
00:45 - Richard’s faith journey and calling to serve through hospitality
01:49 - The biblical basis for welcoming strangers
02:46 - Why hospitality is central to Catholic life and evangelization
03:21 - Challenges and misconceptions in parish hospitality
04:34 - History and inspiration behind McCorry’s book, Companies Coming
05:30 - The spiritual importance of welcoming the newly merged parishioners
06:48 - How being truly hospitable impacts visitors and newcomers
07:49 - Hospitality as a culture, not just a program or committee
08:46 - The process of developing welcoming parishes
09:45 - The importance of understanding the “why” behind hospitality efforts
10:20 - Misconceptions about hospitality and the depth of the spiritual practice
11:21 - Hospitality as a whole-parish responsibility
12:30 - Moving beyond quick programs to sustainable culture change
13:58 - The process of assessing, discerning, planning, and implementing welcoming initiatives
15:11 - Practical steps for parishioners to engage in hospitality
16:40 - Overcoming resistance and examining parish realities honestly
18:28 - Connecting hospitality with evangelization, drawing from the parable of the sower
19:50 - Addressing the needs of both newcomers and long-time parishioners
22:17 - The vital role of parish leadership and pastors
25:35 - Practical first steps for parishioners to promote welcoming environments
26:30 - The importance of seeing through a stranger’s eyes and the impact on church attendance
28:15 - Recognizing and nurturing the faith of existing parishioners
29:40 - Leadership as a model for cultivating hospitality in the community
30:19 - McCorry’s final encouragement to prioritize culture over quick fixes
35:21 - How to connect with Richard and access his resources for parishes

Resources & Links:

• Catholic Hospitality

• Company’s Coming: A Spiritual Process for Creating More Welcoming Parishes

• Richard McCorry on LinkedIn

Connect with Richard McCorry:

• Website

• LinkedIn

• Twitter

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In this discussion, Christina and Shawn explore how Christian leadership, discipleship, and emotional health can be lived out in ordinary work, and how faith-based leadership can transform organizations as well as your own personal growth. Executive Leadership Coach Shawn Sommerkamp shares practical insights on integrating Christian principles into leadership, managing success spiritually, and fostering a healthy emotional and spiritual life.

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In this episode, you’ll learn about:

• How to view your workplace as your full-time ministry

• The importance of integrating discipleship and leadership

• Traits and habits of Christian leaders making a kingdom impact

• The difference between corporate and church leadership mistakes

• Strategies for maintaining spiritual vitality and emotional health

• The significance of setting and trusting in God-led goals

• Practical rhythms for daily spiritual leadership and self-care

• How to discover and align with your divine purpose in everyday work

• Common leadership myths and the importance of investing in high-potential talent

• Why leadership and discipleship should be integrated

• The difference between ethical leadership and Christian leadership

• How humility and self-denial shape kingdom-minded leaders

• Why churches and businesses drift from their mission

• The role of prayer in discerning God’s purpose

• How to identify and live from your core values

• Why emotional health matters in spiritual leadership

• Daily rhythms that help leaders stay spiritually grounded

• Practical leadership myths, habits, and priorities to rethink

Key Takeaways

• Christian leadership is not separate from discipleship — it’s part of it.

• Humility means lifting others up, not diminishing yourself.

• Mission drift often comes from greed, pride, or losing sight of God’s calling.

• Prayer and discernment help us stay faithful to today.

• Knowing your core values can reveal why work relationships and environments create conflict.

• Emotional detachment and healthy boundaries are essential in spiritual work.

• Sustainable leadership depends on rest, rhythm, and wise investment of time.

Memorable Moments

• Shawn on his calling: discovering that his workplace was his full-time ministry

• A discussion of the “fruit of the Spirit” as a model for leadership

• The danger of success becoming spiritually distracting

• Why churches can learn from business about strategy and measurable goals

• Shawn’s practical advice: go to bed at the same time, wake up at the same time, and start the day with protein and prayer

• Rapid-fire leadership wisdom, including the importance of investing in rising talent

Quotes

• “My workplace is my full-time ministry.”

• “The most important thing is I’m His.”

• “What is it you want me to do today?”

• “We’re not self-degrading. We’re just lifting them up.”

• “The biggest leadership myth is that you gotta work eighty hours a week to be the best.”

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Timestamps

00:00 - Introduction to Sean Sommerkamp and his ministry journey
01:12 - The role of workplace as full-time ministry in faith-based leadership
02:09 - Integrating discipleship and leadership as God’s calling
03:45 - Traits of impactful Christian leaders: humility and self-denial
04:58 - The importance of humility modeled by Jesus and John the Baptist
05:41 - How success can become spiritually dangerous when misaligned with God’s mission
06:26 - Handling church leadership transitions without feeling threatened
07:52 - Celebrating growth and success in church and corporate settings
11:28 - The role of strategy and teamwork in both church and business growth
12:35 - Why organizations drift from their mission and how to protect it
13:28 - The dangers of greed and materialism undermining spiritual and organizational health
15:45 - How to discover God’s purpose through prayer and daily obedience
16:52 - The importance of recognizing and respecting core values
22:07 - Balancing spiritual leadership with emotional health and well-being
26:44 - Practical rhythms for maintaining spiritual vitality: sleep and nutrition
28:36 - Leadership habits and myths: from breathwork to work-life balance
29:12 - A daily habit every Christian leader should adopt: prayer on knees
30:20 - The importance of investing in rising talent and leadership development
31:17 - Connecting further with Shawn Sommerkamp via his website

Resources and Links

• Willpower Doesn’t Work by Benjamin Hardy

• Motivation Ear

• Motivation Ear on YouTube

Connect with Shawn Sommerkamp

• Motivationeer Leadership Coaching

• LinkedIn

• Twitter

May this episode inspire you to lead with faith, humility, and purpose every day.

Looking forward to answering questions that have been shared already and then also any questions for those who are there live.

Click this link to access the Zoom session tonight at 7pm

Really excited to dive deeper into the content of Solving the Parish Puzzle and hope to see you there!

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In the world of parish leadership, questions abound. Whether you’re a pastor or a lay leader, navigating the complexities of parish life can feel like solving a giant puzzle. In this post, I invite you to join our upcoming Zoom Q&A session, where we’ll tackle your burning questions about parish renewal and practical implementation strategies.

The purpose of our upcoming Zoom session is not just to answer “what does this mean?” but to help you apply these insights in your parish setting, particularly when facing limited time and resources. This interactive session will provide clarity on how to effectively address common challenges in parish life.

One of the critical questions we’ll address is the difference between parish renewal and parish maintenance. While maintenance focuses on keeping the status quo, renewal seeks to invigorate and transform the parish community. Understanding this distinction can drive effective leadership and foster a more fulfilling parish experience.

During the Q&A, I’ll be discussing several important topics:

• Leadership Development: Why is it crucial for parish life?

• Active Discipleship: How can we move parishioners from passive attendance to active participation?

• Collaboration in Ministry: How can ministries work together instead of in silos?

• Healthy Parish Culture: What are the traits of a thriving parish, and what destroys it?

By focusing on these areas, we’ll address practical strategies that can lead to lasting change in your parish community.

I encourage everyone to send in their questions prior to the session!

Your inquiries help shape the discussion and ensure that we cover the topics most relevant to your experiences. Please reach out either through email to: christinasemmens@gmail.com or via The Catholic Leadership Puzzle Substack page.

In addition to answering your questions, I will share actionable steps that can help you start implementing the discussed strategies effectively. For instance, understanding how long renewal might take and what to focus on for long-term growth are critical for planning.

So, join Us for the Q&A on Wednesday, June 3rd, at 7 PM Central Time. I will provide the Zoom link on my social media and Substack, so stay tuned. If you can’t make it, don’t worry! Just let me know you’d like a recording, and I’ll ensure you receive it.

As we enter the summer season, it’s the perfect time to assess where your parish stands. Let’s work together to address the challenges we face and turn busy parishes into vibrant communities of faith. Join me in this journey of renewal, and let’s solve the parish puzzle—one person, one disciple, and one leader at a time!

Hope to see you THIS Wednesday at 7pmCST. Click the link below to join…

Solving the Parish Puzzle Zoom Q&A

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Patrick’s book complements the work being done at The Catholic Leadership Puzzle, and which I shared about in my own book, Solving the Parish Puzzle in that both of our books act as calls to aspire to holiness through active parish engagement — and the reminder that even small acts of lay leadership can greatly impact our Church’s future.

Key Topics:

• Patrick’s faith journey from childhood Catholic to active parish leader

• The importance of understanding parish as a community of people, not just an institution

• How parish mergers in Pittsburgh influenced Patrick’s view on community and survival

• The concept behind the “Four Floors” framework for parish revitalization: meeting, growing, sharing, and evangelizing

• Practical ways laypeople can initiate ministry projects without waiting for clergy approval

• The role of diagnostics and discussions in identifying parish needs and mobilizing lay action

• Personal anecdotes from Patrick’s experiences in comedy, youth ministry, and podcasting that prepared him for evangelization

• The impact of the “Save Your Parish” book and success stories of parish transformation

• Overcoming resistance and encouraging perseverance in parish renewal efforts

• How to stay spiritually grounded and present amidst online evangelization and everyday life

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction & Patrick’s faith journey
02:15 - Parish as a community, not just an institution
05:54 - How parish mergers shape community understanding
12:14 - Genesis of the “Save Your Parish” vision
16:16 - The four floors framework explained
17:36 - Immediate steps for laypeople with great ideas
20:23 - Diagnostic tools for parish assessment
24:56 - Overcoming resistance and the hope for renewal
26:14 - Patrick’s hopes for the movement and future plans
28:13 - The most rewarding moments in parish transformation
31:24 - Personal growth and sainthood through service
33:10 - Practical habits for staying present and prayerful
35:21 - Final encouragement and how to connect with Patrick

Resources & Links:

• Save Your Parish – Patrick’s website and book info

• Ministry OS – Organize and build your parish ministry

• Book on Amazon – “Save Your Parish” by Patrick Neve

Connect with Patrick Neve:

• Substack

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In this video, Christina discusses the story behind the Solving the Parish Puzzle book, and the resources available to help unpack and implement the principles within your ministry and community.

During the video, she speaks of the SPP Inventory and also the SPP Vision Board Exercise, both free resources available on The Catholic Leadership Puzzle website.

She also announced the upcoming Zoom Q&A session happening on Wednesday, June 3rd at 7pm CST. The session will be focused upon answering any questions that YOU want answered from your reading the book, so you are invited to send any questions to christinasemmens@gmail.com

As a thank you for anyone who submits a question, they will be sent a copy of the SPP Book discussion questions, which currently are available only for Catholic Leadership Puzzle paying subscribers.

Overnight, Solving the Parish Puzzle went to #1 in Amazon New Releases! You can see that reality in the screenshot taken last night at 8:57pm.

The difference was each of YOU and your support throughout the day, and I am both grateful and humbled by your outpouring of help to get word about the book out far and wide.

I also wanted to mention that if you did buy the book, then send me an email (christinasemmens@gmail.com) telling me you bought the book, and I will add you to the list for the upcoming Zoom Q&A session that will be happening in a couple of weeks.

Finally, let’s remember the REAL hero in all of this—Saint Anselm of Canterbury! He showed up in a BIG way, so let’s keep entrusting this book and its message to him.

Saint Anselm, pray for us!

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O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen.

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Day 9 — “God of peace, grant me rest in trusting You.”

Historical note: Saint Anselm’s prayers often conclude in quiet confidence, trusting the Lord to respond.

Reflection :

The novena ends in trustful repose. Saint Anselm teaches that faith ultimately leads to peace. We are not meant to strain endlessly but to rest in God’s truth. After seeking, desiring, and loving, we are invited to trust. God completes the work He begins.

Prayer/Resolution:
God of peace, grant me rest in trusting You. Amen.

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O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen.

St. Anselm of Canterbury, pray for us.

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Day 8 — “Jesus, renew and refashion my wounded heart.”

Historical note: Saint Anselm frequently described the soul as an image in need of restoration.

Reflection :

Saint Anselm acknowledges that the image of God within us is worn by sin. This prayer entrusts renewal wholly to Christ. For those discour­aged by slow change, Saint Anselm offers hope: God patiently reshapes what has been damaged. Sanctification unfolds gradually.

Prayer/Resolution:
Jesus, renew and refashion my wounded heart. Amen.

O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen.

St. Anselm of Canterbury, pray for us.

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Day 7 — “Strengthen my faith, Lord, and deepen my understanding in time.”

Historical note: Saint Anselm famously wrote: “I do not seek to understand that I may believe, but I believe that I may understand.”

Reflection :

This classic insight by Saint Anselm appears explicitly in the closing prayers. Faith comes first; understanding follows. In a world that demands proof before belief, Saint Anselm invites trust first. For lay Christians, this means remaining faithful even when clarity is delayed. Understanding ripens over time through fidelity.

Prayer/Resolution:
Strengthen my faith, Lord, and deepen my understanding in time. Amen.

O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen.

St. Anselm of Canterbury, pray for us.

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Day 6 — “Lord, may love lead me ever closer to You.”

Historical note: Saint Anselm believed love purified the intellect and illuminated truth.

Reflection :

Saint Anselm reverses expectations: knowledge flows from love, not the other way around. We do not first understand God fully and then love Him; love itself becomes the path to encounter. This vision encourages believers to prioritize charity, prayer, and faithfulness even when theology feels distant. Love opens the eyes of the soul.

Prayer/Resolution:
Lord, may love lead me ever closer to You. Amen.

O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen.

St. Anselm of Canterbury, pray for us.

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Day 5 — “Receive my longing, O God, and draw me closer to You.”

Historical note: Desire plays a central role in Saint Anselm’s spiritual theology.

Reflection :

Saint Anselm recognizes that desire itself can be prayer. When words fail or time is short, longing speaks. God sees the orientation of the heart even when action is limited. This line assures believers that holy desire pleases God. Saint Anselm teaches us that desire purified by grace leads us closer to God than performance alone.

Prayer/Resolution:
Receive my longing, O God, and draw me closer to You. Amen.

O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen.

St. Anselm of Canterbury, pray for us.

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Day 4 — “Guide me, Lord, for without You I cannot seek You.”

Historical note: Anselm viewed prayer itself as a gift given by God before being practiced by the soul.

Reflection :

Here Saint Anselm affirms that grace precedes effort. We often assume spiritual progress depends entirely on our discipline, yet Saint Anselm insists that even our seeking depends on God. This prayer frees us from anxiety about “doing prayer right.” God instructs the heart quietly, often through patience and fidelity rather than clarity. Lay believers juggling responsibilities can take comfort in this truth: God guides sincere seekers gently.

Prayer/Resolution:
Guide me, Lord, for without You I cannot seek You. Amen.

O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen.

St. Anselm of Canterbury, pray for us.

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Day 3 — Renew me, Lord, and restore Your Image within me.

Historical note: Anselm prayed that God would “renew and refashion” the wounded image of the soul.

Reflection :
Saint Anselm proclaims God not only as Creator but as Restorer. This prayer reassures us that failure does not cancel our dignity. God continually “re-makes” us through grace, especially when sin has distorted His image within us. For those burdened by regret, this line offers consolation: God never stops recreating. Our lives are not static but responsive to mercy. Each day of the novena renews our trust that God’s work in us is ongoing.

Prayer/Resolution:
Renew me, Lord, and restore Your image within me. Amen.

O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen.

St. Anselm of Canterbury, pray for us.

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Day 2 — Creator God, complete what is unfinished in my soul

Historical note: Anselm often emphasized that the soul requires God’s renewal to fulfill its purpose.

Reflection :
This honest admission that “I have not yet done that for which I was made” places us squarely before God without excuses. Anselm does not deny sin or distraction; he names them. This prayer acknowledges that something in us remains unfinished. For modern believers, this line should resonate deeply because we sense we were made for more than routine or survival. Anselm teaches us that recognizing our incompleteness is not despair but hope. God reveals our lack so that He may fill it. Spiritual growth begins when we admit we are not yet whole. This humility opens the door to transformation.

Prayer/resolution:
Creator God, complete what is unfinished in my soul. Amen.

O my God, teach my heart where and how to seek You, where and how to find You. You are my God and You are my all and I have never seen You. You have made me and remade me, You have bestowed on me all the good things I possess, Still I do not know You. I have not yet done that for which I was made. Teach me to seek You. I cannot seek You unless You teach me or find You unless You show Yourself to me. Let me seek You in my desire, let me desire You in my seeking. Let me find You by loving You, let me love You when I find You. Amen St. Anselm of Canterbury, pray for us

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Day 1 Reflection Intention—”Teach Me to Seek You, Lord”

Historical note: Saint Anselm opens many prayers by asking God to teach him how to pray.

Reflection (aligned prayer line: “Teach my heart where and how to seek You”):
The novena begins not with answers, but with a plea to be taught how to seek. St. Anselm of Canterbury knew that prayer itself is learned through grace. We often rush toward solutions, yet this prayer slows us down, asking God to form our desire before satisfying it. To seek God rightly is already to be guided by Him. Anselm’s prayer reminds us that longing for God is not self-generated—it is invited by God Himself. Even imperfect prayer is precious when offered sincerely. When we ask God to teach us how to seek, we surrender pride and accept dependence. This is the foundation of genuine faith.

Prayer:
Teach my heart, O God, to seek You with humility and trust. Amen.